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Many people know how to be confident because they choose to be confident. You may know some people who appear to have been born confident, but confidence is a state of mind not an inherent trait.
People tend to think that being confident is a direct result of feeling good about yourself when, really, it is more complex than that.
You can have a very high opinion of yourself but if others don't recognize and appreciate your worth, chances are, you won't be too confident.
Just as you wouldn't be too confident if everyone around you adored your every move but you felt terrible about yourself.
The key to being confident is to mingle a positive self image with a feeling of acceptance by those around you.
The following simple steps should get you well on your way to a more confident air.
1. Have no fear.
Statistically, rejection is insignificant. For every one time you are rejected, you will be accepted ten times, providing your goals are realistic.
You may get 10 rejections before your accepted the due 100, but that just gives you something to look forward to, hope.
Hope breeds happiness and happiness dispels fear.
2. Fake it `til you make it.
If they want a duck, walk like one, talk like one, they will think you are one, and soon you will be one. Have you ever told a lie so well that even you believed it was true?
Some people that you have encountered, who seemed to exude confidence, may have been complete frauds, but probably not for very long.
Inevitably if you pretend to be something for long enough, you will become it. Others tend to be drawn to those who are confident so in faking it, you give them a chance to see your positive attributes and gain their acceptance.
3. Dress the part
Always look your best. Sure you can run to the market in your curlers and bathrobe, but don't expect to feel like you can take on the world because if eye contact is made you will feel nothing less than mortified.
You will feel much more confident when you feel like you look nice. If you have to go all out to feel attractive then do it, each and every time there is potential for you to be rejected by anyone, in any way, shape, or form.
At least you will be able to walk away with your head held high.
4. Mix things up.
A sense of accomplishment will obviously make you feel more confident. So quit putting off those new ventures, whatever they may be.
Something to do for fun, to add to your resume, to make you more interesting, just dive into it, remember, no fear.
Seems simple enough, right? So get out there and show them all what you are made of and evolve into a newly confident you! You have nothing to lose and nowhere to go but up. Now you know how to be confident and I am confident in that.
How to Look Slimmer
Here are 7 style tips which you may be less familiar with in order to create a more slimline you:
· Results of recent scientific research from the UK’s York University show that horizontal stripes can give the illusion of being more slimming than vertical ones. However, wearing a single or multiple vertical stripes will lengthen your silhouette and diagonal stripes can make you look leaner.
· Layering your outfit is more slimming than a single piece providing you don’t wear bulky or too tight fabrics. Good quality fabrics that hang rather than cling to every lump and bump are more flattering. Interestingly, loose floppy outfits, rather than hide your excesses, can actually make you look larger than you are.
· V-necks, square-necks or deep round-necks will lengthen your torso by showing off your décolletage. It will make you look less bulky than a high round neck or turtle neck, especially if you need to minimize a big-bust.
· Hemline lengths are all important. The most slimming length for short and medium-height women is just on, or just above the knee. Taller women can wear longer hemlines well.
· Tapered trousers (peg-style pants) are the scourge of women’s fashion. Very few women can carry them off with aplomb. Tapered styles have the ability to make your hips look bigger and your legs look shorter. A traditional boot-cut is far more slimming and leg-lengthening.
· When it comes to fashion accessories, wide corset-style belts can give the illusion of a waist, and therefore a more slimming hour-glass figure. Even if you are bulky round the middle, a cinch-waisted belt will actually give shape and form to a silhouette. Long necklaces will serve to elongate your body, in contrast to a piece worn at the neckline.
· High heels elongate the leg and make ankles and feet look thinner. They can turn around an outfit in a moment, from frumpy to stylish. If you want to appear taller then wear hosiery that matches your dress or skirt, so the line of your outfit continues down to your shoes
The less room hairs have to move about, the less mischief they can get into! French-style braids, which braid the hair from the hairline down the back of the head, are longer-lasting than English-style braids which start at the nape of the neck. Double braids are similarly more confining than single braids. At the extreme end of the spectrum, lots of little braids like cornrows usually stay neat for a very long time (although they take some time to style initially). For a hairstyle that lasts for a week or more, cornrows are worth doing; for a style that only needs to last a day or two, double French braids should be sufficient.
Different types of braids such as French, Dutch and herringbone stay neat; rope braids tend to become “fuzzy” very quickly. Five-strand braids take practice to get right, but are very sturdy and confining once completed.
Oiling hair is a bit of an art – slathering oil on the hair will just make it look greasy. Using a light oil to give the hair the faintest touch of shine will help prevent braids from becoming fuzzy and flyaway at night. Braiding damp hair may also help give a smoother look. In the morning, smoothing water or a drop of oil over the braids may help to smooth them back down. General conditioning of hair will also help it stay neat and reduce flyaways. Hair grows on the head at a rate of about 0.5 mm daily. Because everyone is different, the rate of how quickly hair grows depends on factors such as lifestyle, diet and age. It takes considerable time to develop long hair. Home remedies can help hair to grow quicker. According to CNN Food Central, the body requires 13 vitamins to operate. Vitamin A, B, C, D and E are vital for hair to grow fast. Eat foods have these vitamins in abundance. Get vitamin A from liver, fish oil, eggs, dark-green leafy vegetables and red, yellow and orange vegetables and fruits. Vitamin B1 includes whole-grain products, and vitamin B2 includes milk, cereal, nuts and kidney. For vitamin C, eat citrus fruits. Get vitamin D from cheese, fortified milk and some fish such as sardines and salmon. Vitamin E is available in foods made from nuts, vegetable oils, seeds and leafy green vegetables. Soy protein foods such as tofu are good for hair because hair is made up of protein Give the hair a hot oil massage to improve the scalp’s blood circulation, which makes the hair grow quicker. Apply coconut or castor oil to the hair for a minimum of one hour—the hair should absorb the oil properly before washing it out. Trim hair at least once every five to six weeks to remove split ends and dry hair. Once the hair forms split ends, it stops growing. Try to limit washing the hair to once a week using cold water and a gentle shampoo because hot water and harsh shampoos can destroy the hair. Refrain from blow-drying the hair to avoid damaging it. Brush hair once every morning and evening for better scalp circulation. Oil Hair to Prevent Fuzziness
Nutrition to Grow Hair Fast
Hair Care to Grow Hair Fast
BOOKS - MEDITATION
The benefits of meditations are manifold—but so few practices are tailored to the special needs and interests of women.
you can discover how to love your body and find a time and place to tune into yourself and restore inner balance. Get in touch with your body's natural rhythms. Honor your instincts, and tap into your feminine power so that you can emerge nourished, revitalized, and joyful.
· Relieve stress and promote good health
· Relax and be yourself as you reap life-affirming benefits
· Live in harmony with your world
Hereditary diseases such as diabetes and asthma, illness as well as poor nutrition, sleep and lifestyle habits can weaken immune function. To reduce colds and flus and decrease allergy and asthma symptoms, boost your immune system with these tips:
Proteins are the building blocks for a healthy immune system. Immune cells arise from cells formed in the bone marrow and are protein in structure. Add healthy protein rich foods to the diet such as lean beef, poultry and eggs, fish, dairy products, lentils, legumes, whole-fiber foods, nuts and seeds.
A balanced diet is necessary to help the body fight off invaders that cause illness and disease and to recover from illness and injury faster.
Though whole food sources such as vegetables, fruits and dairy products, provide far superior and more easily absorbed nutrients, taking a supplement can help supply the necessary vitamins and minerals.
Get off the couch and get active to decrease colds and flus. Exercise speeds up the removal of waste and toxins from your body and flushes bacteria and foreign particles from your lungs by increasing respiratory rate. Only 20 minutes of regular, strenuous exercise boosts the immune system.
The immune system is the body’s main defense system against various germs, bacteria, parasites, fungi and infectious organisms that can result in illness and disease. The body’s immune response is a natural process occurring regularly throughout the body to keep it healthy and disease free.
Every year during the fall and winter season the flu becomes a serious concern for many individuals. To help prevent the onset of the flu and to bolster the immune system response in the body it is recommended that a vitamin and mineral supplement be taken on a daily basis.
Studies indicate that vitamin D effectively boosts the immune system and fights off the onset of a variety of viral infections including the flu. Vitamin D comes in two forms vitamin D2 and D3. Vitamin D3, also known as cholecalciferol, is included in a variety of daily vitamins and supplements and is more potent than vitamin D2.
The recommended daily dose of vitamin D3 is 400 IU; however, for flu fighting efficiency it is recommended that adults increase the dosage during the winter season to 1,000-2,000 IU
Foods that contain vitamin D include oily fish such as cod, salmon, sardines and mackerel as well as vitamin D fortified milk and egg yolks. Sunlight is currently the most effective and efficient source of vitamin D. In fact, ultra violet rays from the sun increase the rate and production of vitamin D in the body.
Many people feel like they have large thighs and don't know what to do about it. Usually women who have had a child gain a lot of excess body weight in their thighs and mid-section. This article is going to suggest a better way to handle chubby thighs and how to have them look slimmer.
It is amazing, that as soon as you take a break from a regular exercise program, you begin to see drastic changes in the shape of your body. Weight gain happens most especially from the lack of exercise in the lower extremities.
Over the past twenty years, exercise patterns have taken a change. Some body builders originally suggested sitting down and using a stationary bike to help those legs tone down. This is simply not the case. In recent studies, sitting down does not help your lower body lose weight; in fact it has been proven to hinder weight loss!
There are a few really good ways to lose weight and tone your thighs. The easiest way is with a weighted jumping rope. Many of us have a kitchen timer that we use for cooking large meals; the timer is really good to use for jumping rope.
If you don't have a timer such as the one mentioned before, another good way to tone your thighs is to jump rope between commercials while watching your favorite show.
If you did 3 minutes of jumping at the commercial break between your shows, you will roughly get nine to twelve minutes of exercise. It's actually these little spurts of energy that allow your body to make the fat release in your legs and out of your body it goes!
Another popular way to slim your thighs and lose weight at the same time is to invest in a mini-trampoline. These are the little guys; they are about ten inches off the ground and have rubber end covers on their legs.
The mesh material where you do the jumping is just large enough for indoor use. If you have time during the evening while you are watching your favorite show, you can be exercising too.
When you age, it is a lot harder to lose weight than you might imagine. When you crest 40, it's twenty times more difficult to lose that extra weight. You should lose the extra leg weight because several things can happen.
You can develop spider and varicose veins. When the extra fatty weight lies on your veins the pressure can cause the veins to swell, creating unsightly purple raised veins that are very hard to hide.
Another issue is, when you add extra leg weight your skin will change color where your legs touch. It will not be pretty and it's not something that can be readily changed.
The last and one of the most important reasons, is your heart has to work ten times harder to get nutrients and blood pumped through your legs when they are overweight. When you sit down to do work at the computer, you are cutting the speed of the flow in half.
Be wise, and start exercising those thighs with jumping jacks too. Anything that causes your body to do an up and down movement makes the fat release in your legs and leaves your body for good!
Now that the holiday season is over again, people’s hips are playing host to a new variety of sticky favorites! Extra weight is just not what people need right now in their lives. The best way, if you have recently stopped working out, is to turn on your walking schedule and hit the bricks! In many cases, the weather outside is not good enough to go for a walk.
If you live in an area where snow is your best friend, you may want to invest in a home treadmill for the next several months. Just because it is winter, doesn't mean it is OK to kick up your heals and relax! Read on to learn more about losing inches off your waist!
Many people often start a new regime to better suit their lifestyles, but this is nearly impossible to do. There is always something that gets in the way right when you want to go take your walk. One example, is when the phone rings at precisely your walking time.
You would rather venture out and exercise than stay indoors on the phone! Sometimes, people get trapped inside and the treadmill comes to the rescue when boredom strikes.
The best way to lose inches while walking is to boost your walking speed and increase the height you walk on. If you live where there is a hill you need to add the hill to your regular walking schedule at least twice a week. This allows your body to get some much needed cardio exercise.
The incline should be moderate - you can work up to a steeper hill in the future. If you use the steepest part of the hill every time, your body will not lose as much weight as you might think. Walking up hill allows you to raise your heart rate.
When you raise the levels of your heart rate you are increasing the speed at which the blood flows through your veins. When you do cardio, you will see that you feel very good the next day.
Everything should be taken with a grain of salt and everything should be taken in moderation. This simply means you should watch your weight regularly as a rapid increase in weight could mean there is something else wrong if you have not been over-indulging.
Extra weight puts pressure on internal organs as well as your feet and ankles. Sometimes this extra weight can be harmful to your heart.
When you gain too much weight you will begin to see stress fractures in the arch of your foot, or even along the outside of the ankle and heel. It is not good to have pain or fractures in your feet.
When this does happen, it makes getting the extra weight off your body a lot harder. This is why it's important to walk and do exercise to eliminate the extra weight you have put on.
As with all things, it's important to talk with your physician when you want to change your current lifestyle. This article is meant to be informative only and not to offer a cure.
Why You should Clean your Colon
I bet you didn't know that the colon is much like a garbage can. This is where all the waste products from the foods and drinks you intake in a day end up.
The colon has two linings, one is quite long and open; the other is tighter and slightly smaller. Health care specialists are constantly pushing you to clean out your colon and here is why:
Many people enjoy life and eat a pretty healthy diet, while others tend to snack heavily on junk food. Food that is basically loaded with toxins! These particular toxins: salt, preservatives, sugar and food coloring make the body slow down. For example, if you are chewing down three donuts and gulping two sweet coffees in the morning, you will back your digestive track up for at least three days.
Your body slows down to the point of a crawl, if that, so the sugary salty foods with the preservatives and high fatty oils are laying around in your system for days and days collecting bacteria.
Moreover, if you smoke or drink you are adding to the bacterium that is already forming within your lower intestine on its way to the colon. How dangerous do you think these types of toxins can be?
These bacteria are not good for your body. This is the kind of bacteria you want to wash out of your system as soon as possible. In order to help your body digest better, you could switch your diet and eat more veggies and less high-carb foods, and avoid substances with high oil content and preservatives.
These are just not good for your system. Though you may not be able to change your daily or weekly habits in just a few days, so there is a little something that you can eat or drink to help your body cleanse it's self.
Many health food stores are now selling what is known as a colon cleansing tea. This tea when made correctly helps your system wipe away the bacteria floating in your digestive track. After you brew your first batch of tea it is recommended you recycle the herbs and use them in a couple of dishes.
A new product found only in the healthy food section of most grocery chains allows you to sprinkle on herbs especially designed in helping to flush the colon. These are tasteless flakes of a special blend of herbs from around the world.
After consulting your health care provider, he or she may recommend you use a colon cleansing tool at least three times a week. This process shows a complete improvement in the body's ability to flush the colon and chase away the toxins.
In today's world we cannot escape temptation to divulge into our favorite foods at least once in a while, but we can help our bodies by investing in a colon cleansing tool.
As we mature and grow older, our bodies have difficulty in handling constipation. Many people who love to eat cheese, cookies and breads can develop chronic constipation. It is really the people who suffer from constipation, like these who need ongoing help to keep their bodies running smooth like clockwork.
As with all things this article is simply meant to inform others. This article does not claim to solve, or offer a cure or solution to any problem you may have. If anything in this article relates directly to you, please check with your physician or health care provider for more information and help.
Soy is low in fat and can be a great substitute for unhealthy foods that contain high amounts of fats and oils. Soy products can also be used in the place of other materials such as cooking oils and flours that are unhealthy for various reasons. This is especially beneficial to people who are on a strict diet and are already planning to lose weight.
Soy protein is a favorite among many bodybuilders, since it has the ability to be digested much faster than other types of foods. Soy protein definitely makes bodybuilder’s professions much easier and provides more time to concentrate on their bodybuilding instead of going out to seek diet-conservative food.
This is because soy protein foods take very little time to prepare.
Also, bodybuilders tend to have daily protein and calorie requirements, and consuming soy protein on a regular basis will make this goal a much more organized feat. Moreover, it may be a wise decision to adhere to a diet consisting of natural protein rather than processed protein, since processed foods can have a large amount of risk associated with them.
Soy products contain nutrients like saponins, phytosterol, and isoflavins. Saponins are biological molecules that play an important role in the immune system. These molecules also help to avoid increased absorption of cholesterol so that the person is not pre-disposed to certain illnesses like heart disease.
Isoflavins are powerful substances that tackle and combat free radicals in the body. Free radicals have been known to cause aging. Free radicals react with other molecules in the body and cause cellular and membrane damage.
As opposed to other food products rich in protein, soy products are relatively safe to eat in terms of allergies and intolerance due to other health reasons. However, if you are deciding to convert to a soy diet, it is probably better to consult with a physician or nutritional expert before doing so.
You should ask about the possible interactions that current medications may have with the soy protein product.
Eating soy products can be very rewarding; especially for someone looking for a great source of protein that lacks the side effects of other high protein products.
Soy products are also becoming more and more popularity, as health-conscious people look towards an increasing number of food alternatives.
Stretching has various advantages that many people neglect even though it helps the body in innumerable ways. Sometimes stretching on a repetitive basis can help someone to relieve his or her mental stresses while improving one's health from a physical standpoint.
The human body is a somewhat flexible entity. It is supposed to be flexible. You must be able to bend over and reach something you dropped on the floor. You must be able to zip up the back of your favorite dress on your own. You must be able to reach that book you need to read that is sitting on the top of your book shelf in the living room.
Though these activities are trivial, they still require a person to stretch to a certain extent. If you are having difficulties performing such activities, you might want to enroll in a stretching program since you have already reached your stretching limits.
The length of the muscles and tendons in our bodies are directly affected as we include stretching as one of the major parts of our exercise routines.
As a result of constant stretching of the body, in addition to anatomical tensions that are physically preexisting, a person can gain a significant amount of range of motion, especially when the overall movement of the person is concerned. This will in turn allow for various joints and limbs to move more accurately and efficiently in times of emergency, such as when someone needs to move quickly in order to avoid an injury that is about to occur.
It is easier to move when joints and muscles are stretched, in contrast to when muscles remain inactive for long periods of time. Also, stretching allows for injured muscles and joints to be retained in working order by providing for a faster recovery and a decreased amount of wound susceptibility as a result.
After stretching, the muscles can tolerate rigorous and active movements much better than if they had not gone through stretching at regular intervals.
When the body has the ability to make a wide range of movements, the person is able to participate in much more activities and also establish personal confidence needed to be able to perform functions he or she was previously unable to do.
For example, if you were to play basketball and noticed that you jump approximately 4 to 5 inches from the ground every time you shoot the ball, stretching will eventually allow you to jump much higher than before, and thus you will feel more confident in actively playing in the sport.
In addition, you will be able to engage in new sports and improve on the ones you already participate in.
Almost like a domino effect, stretching will help to improve your energy levels because of the fact that you will be able to make your movements in a much more efficient way.
Stretching also increases your awareness of the surrounding environment, and thus provides motivation so that you will not be simply sulking in the corner of your living room all day long.
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LOVE SECRETS
How to tell if a man is interested in a woman? Take a hint from his eye contact, facial expressions, arm and leg movement, and overall demeanor what he’s thinking and feeling. It’s not too difficult to know if the relationship is charmed or doomed. Just pay attention to the tiny details that will reveal everything.
In the U.S., people assume that eye contact is critical in knowing if someone is telling the truth or being deceitful. However, in some cultures, direct eye contact is a sign of disrespect. In cultures where eye contact is acceptable, eyes remaining on the other person’s face at least 80 percent of the time shows interest.
What is more important is pupil dilation, something people have no control over. If a person is interested in another person, the pupils are likely to dilate. To double check this, discuss something the person obviously has no interest in and watch his pupils constrict. Then bring up something that is one of his passions, and see what happens
When someone blinks, it often shows interest in what the other person is saying, according to Reading the Eyes an article on Psychologist World’s website. Winking, however, varies according to culture. In the Western world, winking is a flirty gesture, while in other cultures, it is disrespectful.
Men and women who stand very close may be showing interest. Other clues to look for to indicate a positive awareness are:
Keep in mind that there may be some cultural differences, which may cause a different reading of the person’s intentions. Most Hispanics tend to have a smaller comfort zone than many Asian people, due to cultural upbringing. Be aware of the person’s background and watch for changes in his particular behavior. If he starts out standing arm’s length apart then moves closer while focusing on the conversation, this is a sign of interest.
Many women, knowingly or unknowingly, show their interest in a man by moving a certain way or making gestures that indicate that their senses are heightened. When she tosses her hair, strokes her hair or moves it away from her face and exposes her bare shoulders, she’s showing a desire for attention. Other things she may do are lick her lips, apply fresh lipstick or slowly nibble on something she’s eating.
Men tend to watch a woman’s gestures, looking for a sign they’re interested. If they feel confident they won’t be rejected, they may lift an eyebrow and let it fall.
Other signs to watch for include:
Although the physical signs aren’t foolproof, they may indicate the other person’s interest. Watch for eye contact, blinking, pupil dilation, how close the other person stands, preening and other body language gestures for a strong hint. If this is the first date the best way to find out what the other person is thinking or feeling is to come right out and ask.
Whether the couple is married, engaged or dating, most loving relationships require time, energy and commitments from both people. With a few helpful suggestions, anyone can hold onto the connection with that special someone.
Take Responsibility in a Relationship
Don’t expect the other person to fulfill every aspect of what makes a happy relationship. Take some responsibility by initiating conversation and acting on what will make both people happy.
Look at the big picture of the relationship and appreciate the good things. Avoid nitpicking trivial issues, such as leaving the cap off the tube of toothpaste or forgetting to take out the garbage. If the smaller problems become a deal-breaker, perhaps the problem is something more significant.
Communication is one of the essential elements in a relationship. Listen to each other without interruption. However, not every single issue needs to be discussed, or the doors open to being nitpicky.
Honesty is critical in all relationships for them to have a chance for success. Stick to all commitments and let the other person know what is important. Without honesty, distrust will take the reins on the relationship, and this is one of the most difficult issues to turn around.
Be realistic in the relationship and don’t expect to change the other person. Remember that everyone has flaws, and to expect otherwise will be frustrating and cause the relationship to suffer.
Couples need to make time commitments to nurture the relationship. If one or both people in the relationship drift away without considering the other person, the connection will grow weaker and eventually snap.
Let the other person know how much he’s loved. Say, “I love you” often, and show the love by doing extra things that are out of the ordinary. Go somewhere or cook something, simply because that would make her happy. Offer compliments as long as they are real. Show appreciation for what the other person does or says. Be supportive in important decisions.
Find extra ways to keep the romance alive in the relationship. Here are a few examples to get started:
Being in a loving relationship is rewarding. Take the time to nurture it, and the love will continue to grow. Couples can stay happy and in love by taking responsibility in the relationship, communicating openly and regularly, being honest with each other, expressing their love to each other clearly and adding extra touches to keep sparks alive.



